Ruth was known for her sociable nature, impeccable wardrobe, elegant parties, philanthropy, and a charming Texas accent that people couldn’t say “no” to. She modeled her life after butterflies, with a love of beauty and transformation.
Born in rural Texas as the youngest child of a Methodist minister, Ruth grew up loving singing Christian hymns, especially her lifelong favorite, Amazing Grace. She met her first husband at Perkins School of Theology. Together they raised four children on the west side of Chicago, where they were founding members of The Ecumenical Institute, a family religious order that launched community organizing projects around the world. Ruth was proud of her role in establishing a pre-school in 5th City, Chicago that pioneered self-esteem curriculum and helped inspire Head Start; and later of her uncanny knack for fundraising.
Global fundraising gave Ruth both a taste for travel and an introduction to her second husband, an American businessman in Peru, while raising money to dig a clean water well for Azpitia, Peru. He was smitten and did indeed fund the well. After six years in Lima, they retired in Texas until his death.
Family drew Ruth to the Bay Area. Using her gift for entertaining, Ruth started a Sunday Salon social club for mature singles, first in San Francisco and then in Rossmoor when she moved there in the late 1990's. Her parties launched many friendships and loving relationships, including her own marriage to her third husband, who shared her love of travel. The Rossmoor Sunday Salon continued even after she retired from it. In her philanthropy work, Ruth was especially devoted to a non-profit which sent medical supplies to Peru and Cuba.
As Ruth grew frail, she made sure her kids knew they were loved and that she felt blessed with strong faith and a wonderful life. She is survived by four children, their partners, four grandchildren, and four grandogs.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations to Doctors Without Borders or Emily’s List, both favorites of Ruth’s.